Monday, November 7, 2016

My Weekend

This weekend I was at my cousin's house celebrating his dad's birthday. Before I went to his house I was at my soccer game. We ended up winning 3-0 and we almost ended up fighting with the other team. After the game was over I stayed to watch ,y cousin Devin play. During 1st half he crashed heads with another player and he was on the floor for a few seconds and he had a bump on his head. We put ice on it and ended up playing and scoring in the last minute. When i got home I took a shower and changed into new clothes. My dad ended up taking me to the party and i was just hanging out with my cousins. We ate food and at night we sang happy birthday to my uncle. The next day my dad was showing me how to drive on an empty street. It was kind of hard at first but then I started getting the hang of it. He taught me how to turn and how to go in reverse I'm still bad at it, but I'm learning

Thursday, November 3, 2016

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People

                                           

        The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People 

Habit 1: Be proactive 
"Habit is the key to unlocking all the other habits and that's why it comes first. It says, "I am the captain of my life. I can choose my attitude. I'm responsible for my own happiness or unhappiness. I am in the driver's seat of my destiny, not just a passenger."
Being proactive means thinking and acting ahead of anticipated events. This is important because it can help you avoid disasters along the road. Being proactive means being able to solve problems instead of dwelling on them. You can be proactive by doing all your work and not waiting until the last minute to do it. Make a plan for yourself by writing what you are going to do and how you are going to accomplish it.  

Habit 2:
Begin with the End in Mind 
"Control your own destiny or someone else will."(Jack Welch)
"When you know where you intend to end up, you know where you are now."(Covey)
This habit means to start something with a clear understanding of what you are going to do. It means starting to start something while also thinking of the outcome you are going to do. You start off with a clear vision and you start fresh with no problems or worries. if you are having problems or something is wrong you forget about it when you start something new. You start with a blank and open mind. You know what you want to accomplish and you already figured out the steps that you are going to take in order to accomplish it. You try not to think negatively, and only think positively.   

Habit 3: Put First Things First
"Organize and execute around priorities"
What this means is that you have to do important things first. You cannot put it aside and wait to do it later. It means doing something that you know you have to do without being told or reminded. It also where you remind yourself you have to do things. You stay organized and accomplish everything you said you were going to do. Having a flexible schedule so that you can get things done. You can accomplish this by having a book where you write your to do lists. You can set yourself reminds on your phones to stay caught up. It's where you can easily notice what's important and what's not. 

Habit 4: Think Win-Win 
"Think win-win or no deal."
What this means is that when you are doing something you have to think of winning. If you don't that way then you won't try your best. You won't give it your all. W never go into any situation with a losing mentality. If you have a losing mentality then you are never going to go far in life. It also means agreements or solutions. You can keep a candy to yourself or share it with someone and enjoy it as well. We can help others and by helping them we also feel good about ourselves. You don't people others down you help lift them up. You try to do your best as well as helping others do their best. 

Habit 5: Seek first to understand, then to be understood 
"Diagnose before you prescribe."
What this habit means is that is that you need to seek first to understand something. You have to look for the answers to your problem to be able to understand why it is happening. You need to be able to find the answers on your own. By doing you begin to understand the problem more effectively. You not only learn from this, but it helps you grow as an individual. You can do this by listening to when people are talking, instead of interrupting them. Paying attention to what they say because they might have the answer to your problem.





Habit 6: Synergize
"The whole is greater than the sum of it's part(1+1=3)
Being able to synergize is working well with others. You are very cooperative and work well in teams. You are also open-minded and listen to what others have to say. You love to solve problems and take on any challenge. You are a leader and you help out others and put them first. You don't put people down you help bring them up and strive for greatness.. You put others before yourself and try to be an example for them of what to do or how to act. If
someone gets a wrong answer you help them figure out what wrong and fix their error.




Habit 7: Sharpen the saw
The four dimensions of self-renewal: Physical, mental, Spiritual, Social/emotional.
This means that you need to focus on yourself and improve yourself. It means taking care of yourself and your well being. You eat healthy, exercise, and you are well rested. By doing this you have a well physical body. You also improve yourself by making new friends and interacting with people. You have a good social life. The best way to improve yourself is by reading, writing, and teaching. By doing this you become educated and you educate others. The last way to improve yourself is being able to connect with nature. You meditate and go ino nature and relax. You become better spiritually by doing this.

Reflection: The seven habits of highly effective people is important because it helps you be a better person. You can improve yourself little by little. These are highly effective rules because you get to understand yourself. You can also help other people improve themselves by telling them these rules. These rules well even help you out further in life. They teach you to be a responsible person. You get to understand what's important and what are distractions. You grow as a person and you become more mature and more caring.